So my organic predisposition was actually one of radical self-acceptance. Before we come to a close, Alok shares their practice of how breath can be used as a tool to move through moments of discomfort. Alok Vaid-Menon on how the transphobic narrative constructs predators and victims All American Entertainment Named to Inc. Best Workplaces in 2022. As the creator of the growing movement to degender fashion, ALOK is helping others move beyond the binary into full expression. Every time Im feeling shame, I breathe into that location. That response has deep historical roots, they said, noting that they've studied gender, sexuality and sociology at Stanford University. We use these artworks as a jumping off point to better understand the paths our guests have been on and where they are going. We silenced our own differences, subdued our creativity, and toned down our own gender non-conformity in order to fit in. ALOK is trying to figure it out. And I am your host, Laurie Anderson. Other factors that can affect speaker fees include the talent's schedule, market conditions, length of presentation, and the location of the event. Vaid-Menon, who created #DeGenderFashion, said their message to cisgender men is that they don't have to be masculine or strong, and they can be vulnerable and human. So the goal has always been about elimination of us. Nonbinary activist Alok Vaid-Menon broke down the history of and problems with the gender binary and how people can fight against it in video that has gone viral on social media. We prove that we are real by telling them that they are not. This false choice of boy or girl, man or woman, male or female is not natural - it is political. In the episode, which premiered Monday, Vaid-Menon said the gender binary the idea that there are only two genders rather than a spectrum and the traditional expectations associated with binary gender labels hurt everyone, not just transgender people, and these fixed ideas of what it means to be a man or a woman make it difficult for people to find out who they truly are. Alok Vaid-Menon is one member of the transgender South Asian performance duo known as DarkMatter. The word artist is one of possibility, not constriction, they said. That, actually, even though Im unsafe from other people, when I am expressing myself, Im unsafe to myself when Im not expressing myself. Gender is not what people look like to other people; it is what we know ourselves to be. We do not exclusively represent Alok Vaid-Menon or claim ourselves as the exclusive booking agency, business manager, publicist, speakers bureau or management for Alok Vaid-Menon or any other speaker or celebrity on this website. It became about being seen in a different way. speaker. Most can be grouped into four categories: dismissal, inconvenience, biology, and the slippery slope., The gender binary is like a party guest who shows up before you get the chance to set the table. Support Button Poetry: http://bit.ly/buttonpatreonSubscribe to Button! But whose standards of beauty are we required to adhere to? New video daily http://bit.ly/buttonpoetryIf you loved this poem, check out Andrea Gibson: http://bit.ly/MaybeINeedYouAlok Vaid-Menon, performing in Minneapolis.Button Facebook: http://facebook.com/buttonpoetryButton Twitter: http://twitter.com/buttonpoetryButton Instagram: http://instagram.com/buttonpoetryButton Tumblr: http://buttonpoetry.tumblr.comAbout Button:Button Poetry is committed to developing a coherent and effective system of production, distribution, promotion and fundraising for spoken word and performance poetry.We seek to showcase the power and diversity of voices in our community. That hatred you feel when you see us having the audacity to live a life without compromise, that hatred is for yourSELF.". It depends on each persons experience. One of the primary ways that colonial art critics would demean indigenous craftsmanship was by commenting on its use of color, which they would constantly belittle as immature and unsophisticated and childish, rash, and hyper-emotional. Normativity looks like a specific sneaker brand being upheld as the best. To live in America is to already attend a funeral The goal of gender-neutral language is to get rid of gender normativity, not everyones gender., I suppose some people wanted to protect me from bullying and didnt realize that they were bullying me in the process., Gender non-conforming people face considerable distress not because we have a disorder, but because of stigma and discrimination. Advertisement Coins. And in so many ways, the enduring forms of harassment that I experience are the universe asking me this question over and over again. Transgender Model & Advocate; Founder of Gender Proud. ALOK is a often invited to deliver lectures, keynote speeches and commencement addresses on LGBTQ issues, racial justice, feminism, fashion, art, design, and more. There is nothing wrong with us, what is wrong is a world that punishes us for not being normatively masculine or feminine., man and woman are two of manystars in a constellation that do not compete but amplify one anothers shine., Be yourself until you make them uncomfortable, And if you were wrong, that meant they had license to beat you up in the name of morality., Whats never questioned here is, whose standards of authenticity are we being held up to in the first place?, And we tell the kids who dont fit into our categories that they are wrong. Although I am constantly harassed for it, I am able to keep going because I know who I am. And Im your host, Laurie Anderson. School, Vaid-Menon explained to me, was difficult, and they needed an outlet. Be the first to learn about new releases! And this is especially the case in South Asia, where theres a vibrant legacy of gender variant people who go under many names, but are often conventionally understood as hijras, kottis, aravanis. In the author's words it "is a dream of what it could look like to celebrate transfemininity in public both in ourselves and for the people who desire us (by which I mean: everyone, across time, always)." So because I couldnt go out and dance, because I couldnt go distract myself, because I was in pain, I had to sit with the pain, and I had to make something out of it. 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And you see someone who you never thought dance, could dancean 85-year-old, just with this kind of unbridled sense of possibility in every step and gesture. These inspiring keynote Coming from many different backgrounds, these men and women are popular entertainers, athletes, models, and more. No one else should be able to tell you who you are; thats for you to decide., We want a world where boys can feel, girls can lead, and the rest of us can not only exist but thrive. And I had to basically stay at home and I started to really write. We punish them until they conform. Diversity and inclusivity are not just industry buzzwords. ALOK is a dynamic and seasoned presenter who excels in tailoring their message to their audience from college students to corporate boardrooms. Vaid-Menon said. Its the reason why I do the work that I do. i want to text the boy above ground waiting for me, ask:have you ever been to a funeral with complete strangers?but instead i look at the woman next to me, the onewho told a dead man to die more considerately andi remember that to live in america is to attenda funeral with complete strangers: how many ghosts does it take for a cemetery to call itself a country? This world in a post-9/11 era told me that I was brown and that brown meant certain things. But what I like about a wedding dance party is everyone is just being gnarly and foolish and playful. In her eyes my journey was about hurting her, not about healing myself. Robot". Alok Vaid-Menon and the Art of Standing Out. As a full-service talent booking agency, we have access to virtually any speaker or celebrity in the world. She is the partner of comedian Kate Clinton. And then I ask it until I can remember that the shame was not my own. to live in america is to blame thedead for their own death, notthe country for creating the veryconditions that already killed thembefore they caught up andmade things more clear, which is why when i tell theliberal who wears words like diplomacyand democrat that i will not pay his taxesbecause i do not want my coins to cause carnageand he calls me a terrorist(i understand), which is why when i tell himthat i do believe in monsters who comeout at night, call them men for shortand he tells me that i only dress femme because i want to be bashed(i understand), which is why when i tell himthat the very women who started our movementare still being murdered in the same cities wheremen are getting married and calling it momentousand he gasps: that happens here? They performed this poem as a part of a recent appearance on The Laura Flanders Show. Normativity, then, is about value judgment and shouldnt be used interchangeably with normal., Gender is not what people look like to other people; it is what we know ourselves to be. Vaid-Menon explores ideas through poetry and nonfiction, but also through fashion, virtual book clubs and live performances. For more information about our guest and to see images of the artwork in this episode, visit AWAKEN Podcast. Explore Gaming. And that degree of intention, I hope to bring into everything. To live in America is to already attend a funeral with complete strangers.. Vaid-Menon is self-publishing a poetry book called Your Wound/My Garden. At the beginning of my career I was really concerned with detailing the nature of the wound that I had in the world, Mx. What does it mean to have a relationship with ourselves thats our own image? Trans activist and actress Laverne Cox and actor Billy Porter both shared clips from the episode. That idea of the only witness necessary being the earth I think is really powerful to me, because I think that so much of what the dilemma of humanity is that were constantly trying to prove what already is. I was paying so much attention to the ways in which I was discriminated against that I forgot to pay attention to the ways in which I was already free. And people are saying thats a threat.". In this performance-lecture ALOK presents a 21st century approach to gender rights, calling for an end to the gender binary. Awaken is sponsored by Tricycle: The Buddhist Review, a print and digital magazine dedicated to making Buddhist teachings broadly available. Some of my favorite comedians are Black, Indigenous, people of color and trans people because we know that humor is not about levity. But I think once I started to experience the delight of freedom, there was no going back. And I caught fire, which is intense. In 2019 ALOK was invited to close the Business of Fashion Voices Conference with a keynote speech calling for the degendering of fashion and beauty industries. Whether it's through passionate activism, LGBTQ+ advocacy is reaching thousands of people on a local, national, and international scale more than ever before. Or is this someone else? They share with us their spirituality, poetry, and what it means to live beyond the gender binary. Alok Vaid-Menon - Funeral 21,371 views Mar 10, 2019 1.3K Dislike Share Save Button Poetry 1.37M subscribers Join Subscribe Support Button Poetry: Alok Vaid-Menon is a gender non-conforming performance artist, educator, and writer. Why do engrained beauty standards so often require some of us to become invisible in order to make other people feel more comfortable? ALOK (they/them) is an internationally acclaimed writer, performer, and public speaker. but instead i will sit here and wait until the train starts up again.i will exit the car without saying goodbye to her.i will walk up the stairs to the boy outside with the smile that makes me feel less lonely. As a visibly gender non-conforming person, I often receive unsolicited advice about my appearance. "They've repressed their own femininity. "I'm just doing this to help." And thats what were seeing, unfortunately, in 2021. But there are so many more important questions to be asked when a child is born, such as: Hows your baby doing? or How can I support you during this time? or Why is it so expensive to raise kids? Or maybe even Where can I donate to help?, Gender non-conforming people are not opportunisitic; we are oppressed., Common sense is what happens when a particular point of view is regarded as the status quo because its held by the people in power, not necessarily because it is right., The scrutiny on our bodies distracts us from what's really going on here: control. I just was. Mara is often described as representing the inner forces of illusion and ignorance. And then practice that. Alok Vaid-Menon in Oxfordshire, England, on Nov. 22, 2019. Stuart C. Wilson / Getty Images for The Business of Fashion Nonbinary activist Alok Vaid-Menon broke down the history of and problems with the gender binary and how people can fight against it in video that has gone viral on social media. Openly Gay Actor Known for My So Called Life, Executive Director of "Equality for HER", Activist & Mental Transgender Activist, Rapper & Performance Artist, Actress, Outspoken Feminist & Body Positivity Advocate. Like Im going to let a couple finish, but its the after-party for me. "I dont need to be legitimized. Leaving us a review is one of the best ways to help this podcast reach more listeners like you. In the early 20th century, when women were advocating for the right to vote, men created postcards that showed women dressed up as men and men dressed up as women, Vaid-Menon said. What I recollect is a feeling of unbridled joy, a feeling of wonder, of the enormity and potentiality of my body and this universe and art. In 2017 they released their critically-acclaimed poetry collection Femme In Public, a meditation on anti-trans discrimination. WebCome here to share slam poems, or talk about slam! Like so many, this person mistook their insecurity as my own. This writer and performance artist is fighting for a world where all people are able to self-determine their gender. . Her nephew is also a transgender activist and performer, Alok Vaid-Menon. LAURIE ANDERSON: Welcome to AWAKEN, a podcast presented by the Rubin Museum of Art in New York City. That color brings too much attention to yourself, that you should try to tone it down to fit into the visual cues of the dominant world. We speak with internationally acclaimed, gender non-conforming writer, performer, and public speaker Alok Vaid-Menon, whose work speaks to themes of trauma, belonging, and the human condition. The sight of me walking with my head high -- brown, bearded, and in a bold red lip -- was too much for them. ", "I dont need your help. With every tear I am seeing the miracle of body. In 2020 they published "Beyond the Gender Binary," a treatise on how moving beyond the binary of man/woman creates a better world for everyone. And what most people dont know is that one of the tactics of colonization was the attempted cultural genocide of these populations. Because the thing is, you have revelations about yourself, but youre not ready yet to live those revelations. If youre hungry to continue the conversation, join us on Instagram at @rubinmuseum. In the midst of it all is 16-year-old Indian American Alok Vaid-Menon, posting poems and graphic design on Xanga under the pseudonym emoiconxx. our train is delayed and i am late for lunch with a boy i like because he makes me feel less lonely and that seems like a sufficient definition for love And I think that the reason spirituality is important is because I would argue that theres a difference between the manic mechanical function of a heart beating and the poetic practice of a heart loving. Well hear from authors, artists, wisdom bearers, and Buddhist teachers, people who have experienced a shift in their perspectives on life throughout their personal journey. I would tell everyone, Im going to grow up and Im going to be a dancer. Wayfarer Studios LLC. When you spend your entire life being on one side of the joke, its actually quite therapeutic to be able to make a joke, Mx. I was no longer an individual. Science Says No. She eventually passed on without ever seeing me as myself. This is not about erasing men and women but rather acknowledging that man and woman are two of manystars in a constellation that do not compete but amplify one anothers shine., This is actually the purpose of language to give meaning to concepts as they evolve.. I wept: for her, and for me. Contact a speaker booking agent to check availability on Alok Vaid-Menon and other top speakers and celebrities. Despite constant invalidation, so many transgender people transition because we know there is a quiet and fierce dignity to being able to look at yourself and say "this is who I am.". All Rights Reserved. Contact All American Speakers for ratings, reviews, videos and information on scheduling Alok Vaid-Menon for an upcoming live or virtual event. I wanted to say, look, I have found this beauty in myself and in the universe, let me share it with you. We hope you enjoyed it. I was feeling and being. How do I express it? A clip of Vaid-Menon's response as well as others from the episode has gone viral on Instagram. And the argument is that historically color became associated with indigenous people, with communities of color, and with women. They've repressed their own gender nonconformity. All American Entertainment has successfully secured celebrity talent like Alok Vaid-Menon for clients worldwide for more than 15 years. Eyes on the Prize: Fashion plays an important role in Mx. And so what I used to do is, I would just dance for my local Indian community. When I play music, its not just that Im playing music, its that Im setting the scene to be alive. i will soon forget. What am I feeling in this moment? For an optimal experience visit our site on another browser. Next Thing: This month, Mx. And I have never been good at waiting. By encouraging and broadcasting the best and brightest performance poets of today, we hope to broaden poetry's audience, to expand its reach and develop a greater level of cultural appreciation for the art form.Help us caption \u0026 translate this video!https://amara.org/v/CYwp1/ This writer and performance artist is fighting for a world where all people are able to self-determine their gender. And so you default back into your self-sabotaging coping strategies, and then two months later, something falls apart and youre like, oh, Ive been meaning to address this and I never did. That is the poetic work. Because before I could speak, I could gesture. They later added that people need to have compassion before "comprehension" meaning they need to have empathy for trans people even if they don't understand them. These are the sacrifices a body must make for growing too fast. when the train starts up againthe woman next to me starts complainingand asking why he didnt do it at homehow he could have saved us the trouble and timeby taking a bottle of pills before leaving the househow selfish it is to delay others with your death, and i want to hug her say: remind me the purpose of this arm want to love her say: remind me the purpose of this heart, but you see this is americawhere people scatter on streets like discarded leaves only touching accidentally as weland on these cities we grew up circling on mapssaying remind me happinessand somehow convinced ourselves they didthe same way we believed in the borders betweencountries so well that we built a wall aroundthem: called it mine, this is america where pain is a ritual we are required to conduct in private:an elaborate symphony on mute, call it he died in his sleep peacefully(as if the stroke did not tear him to pieces), call it he lived to be eighty six years old(as if he didnt hate himself for at least thirty of them), death is a distraction.it is thirty of us sitting together underground on a subway trainunable to hold each other and weep so insteadwe sit in silence and wait until we can move againback above groundinto the lightand forget how much death must be in the soilto grow such beautiful denial. "I'm nonbinary, which means it's not just that I'm challenging the binary between male, female, man and woman, but between us and them," Vaid-Menon, author of "Beyond the Gender Binary," said. they told Heath. Addeddate 2016-11-04 00:33:48 Closed captioning no Duration 199 Identifier Reincarnation_-_Alok_Vaid-Menon To have a relationship with our body thats our own body? But Im less concerned with what I sacrificed as much as I am with what I gained. i will apologize for being late.i will not have the words for a type of loss that is so distant it is intimate.after lunch later i will get back on the train.i will remember. Why wouldnt you accept your own vibrancy and fluidity? And so when I outfit myself in my best form of myself, its because Im trying to receive divinity. So color is part of that. Take a look at Button's Privacy Policy. "I wish I could explain my existence as a non-binary person with this clarity," one person wrote. Atlanta-based company Mailchimp calls Aloks talk required viewing for the world and Cornell University uplifts Aloks presentation as truly life-saving work.. "I don't need your help," they said, adding that they "have an unshakable and irrevocable sense of who I am" and don't need to prove anything. "Women were basically just saying, 'We want the right to vote,' and men heard that as 'Im losing power,'" they said. Alok uses the pronoun they and has received international attention for AAE Named to Inc. Best Workplaces in 2022. They've repressed their own ambivalence. Like I was interconnected with everything: the air, the people around me, the music. And because I was a quote-unquote boy I was not supposed to be that feminine. A Tibetan Buddhist Journey Toward Enlightenment. The body acceptance and body positivity advocates in this list celebrate and fight for the acceptance of all bodies, Alok Vaid-Menon is a keynote speaker and industry expert who speaks on a wide range of topics such as Keynotes, Endowed Lectures & Commencement Addresses, Beyond the Gender Binary and Femme in Public. Copyright 2023 All American Speakers Bureau. To which I would ask, why wouldnt you do this? I feel beauty right now in being a disembodied voice. That sense of safety, of trust, of legibility and coherence. Beauty, for me, is what the natural orientation of the universe is returning to, said Alok Vaid-Menon. Diversity and inclusivity are not just industry buzzwords. And that kind of sense of recognition and that sense of self-acceptance and that sense of surrender to the kind of quiet pulse of the earth having a heartbeat is what I would describe why we do this thing. Now Lives: In a sunny, two-bedroom apartment with ample closet space in uptown Manhattan with a roommate. 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